I have an update and any help or suggestions would be appreciated.
After a reboot this morning I decided to take a FRAPS video to show the problem. To my surprise, for the first time, every game worked flawlessly without the "lag" problem. However I later rebooted, without making any changes, and every game was back to its problematic self. I then recorded a video to fraps and uploaded it to youtube to show this very unique lag problem.
VIDEO HERE: http://youtu.be/q5HUSVQY3sI
Unfortunately FRAPS did not pick up my mic very well. What you see is my character studdering around like mad, taking out the wrong guns as I switch, reloading 2-3 times before actually reloading and teleporting around. All of which doesn't happen to any other players in game on screen and stops the second I get in someone's vehicle in BF4. It's only 2 minutes long but it gets worse and this was pretty mild and the same thing that happens in 99% of all my other games. My fps was 90 and my ping was 22, tested fine on my desktop as well.
I have since wondered what could have fixed it and tried stopping, uninstalling and reinstalling several programs and changing gpu settings and nothing has helped or made a difference. I've spent roughly 20hrs this week alone on this problem, please lend some assistance or advice.