Hey Glen welecome to the forum mate.
Could you explain a bit more what you mean when by "when I try the last one the board alarms", I am taking that to mean if you add the 4th stick then the board will not post. Is that correct?
Could you download memtest ver 4.2 is avaialbe in USB stick form, and test each stick of ram, it sounds like one of your sticks may be faulty or that one of your DIMM slots may be fautly.
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