So I'm back on this one again.
So after using the isp device not a glitch, soon as i'm back on the DSL-AX82U-AX5400. It's just not right, the vdsl2 line speed is decreasing, the signal margins go from 1.0 to 5.0, I get my dsl dose not function error after a reboot see picture.
Unplugging then plugging back in the DSL cable, that someone else pointed out, fix's the issue instantly with the dsl dose not function and also restores some of the vdsl2 line speed but not alot, this will be down to the SNR margin.

After using the isp device SNR margin was on 3.3 for some time, I then swapped to the asus, SNR margin 3.3, then I changed Stability Adjustment -2db in the dsl setting so SNR margin was 1.3.
It maybe related to that why am saying. I will leave Stability Adjustment disabled for now just in case it's that causing the SNR margin to flux. At mo SNR margin is 4.8 with Stability Adjustment disabled.