Hello mate, all you need to do is enable the DHOCP in the bios and then you will have to change the FSB a little to get close to your desired memory frequency. Just remember when you change the FSB your CPU will clock higher.
The next key point is to manually set the voltage of the memory in the bios, look on the sticks and see what the suggested voltage is for that frequency - I would suggest 1.65 and set that yourself.
AISuite well that application is not my best friend, so if you want you can remove it for now.
Do all your OC in the bios if possible.
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