Mr. C ... I would do two things.
1st .. Since your memory is 1866, I would use the drop down under DOCP and choose 1866.
2nd .. I would change the Manual settings to Auto (since you are not setting them manually) under
cpu/nb voltage ... (top of the screenshot)
It looks to me as if it is just accepting the last voltages as auto under manual since you didnt change them ..
choosing Auto will fix them to the settings on the 2nd screenshot ... ie .. multiplier 20
Your cpu voltage is .864 for example and this should be around 1.4 to get you to the Joy ..
That cpu will do 4.6G easy ... I have seen many tweaked to 5 with the right cooling...
Go into bios .. change Manual to Auto .. f10 .. enter and see if that doesn't do the trick ..
(if not .. you can enter them manually .. but it will. .. when you get you tweak'n OC on you will
want to play with those.. haha.)
then you can go back after the memory...
Keep us posted ... .c.