Could you download Memtest (ver 4.2) there is a USB version that I use and it is easy to work with.
Take all your ram out and start with one stick, place it is the lane furtherest away from the CPU.
Go into BIOS and set your voltages manually to the ram
Navigate to the DRAM timings and manually enter the ram timings and speed. (basically you are manually entering those key settings that the XMP will do)
F10 and enter.
F8 and select the USB stick as your boot device.
Two successful passes of memtest.
Repeat the Memtest with each stick of ram one at a time.
Once all sticks have passed test each of the slots on the motherboard with one of the working sticks of ram.
Then try with all populated.
Please report back how it goes
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