Pretty close or identical other than tRFC? Because in many cases pretty close won't cut it:) Verify please that you have the exact same timings as the other board and it still doesn't work. I'm trying to figure out if it's the auto settings for your particular RAM kit that's off or there's some other sort of incompatibility:)
Ona side note did you try Maximus Tweak Mode 1?
You can try these changes (assuming you're setting 12-14-14-35-2T primary timings):
DRAM Refresh Interval: 8000DRAM Write Recovery Time: 16DRAM Read to Precharge Time: 8DRAM Write to Read Delay: 8
CAS Write Latency:13
tWRRD_dd:8
DRAM CLK Period: 14
These are changes from your screenshot. Also apply these voltages.
VCCSA: 1.25
IO A: 1.25
IO D voltage:1.25If these settings get it to boot properly start tweaking down timings (while respecting relationships between timings) and VCCSA/IO voltages.
If it doesn't boot with these settings either you can test
DRAM Swizzling Bit 0, 1 ,2 (leave 3 on) and
IC Optimizer (while keeping these RAM settings) as your DIMMs may or may not like Swizzling bits and IC Optimizer.