The beeps are saying they can not see the ram.
Please try using only one stick of ram and use the memory slot furtherest from the CPU.
Remove all HDD and other bits that are not required to boot to BIOS. Keyboard and mouse only.
Re the socket what you could do is take some photo's of the socket from different angles and post them up here.
You say you flashed your BIOS I assume you had to have done that via bios flash back method is that correct.
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