Since I couldn't find a real benchmark where someone tested a 960M on Arma 3 you have to do some comparing.
960M passmark score: 1,931
650 ti passmark score: 2,664 Arma3 Very high 1920x1200: 29 FPS Ultra 1920x1200: 21 FPS
the 650 is the closest card I could find to the 960M with the same RAM so here Are my personal Estimates for a 960M on arma
ESTIMATE NOT REAL TEST
960M Arma at 1920x1080
Ultra: 18 fps
very high 25 fps
high 27-30 fps
standard 30-35
low 38-45
IF anyone sees this and disagrees feel free to correct or post your own opinion. It is possible that the frames rates will be 5-10 fps higher overall. I think this is a good general idea though.
I7-4790k OC 4.9 1.375v
MSI Gaming X GTX 1080 OC core:2055Mhz Mem:5504Mhz
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